After three days of teaching two of my sons at home (actually, the first two days I also did some lessons for my oldest son too), I am quite wiped out! Every day has felt like a marathon race! The first day was the craziest. I had mapped out a schedule for the day that included times. Whenever I do something like that I get very frustrated. While it's good to make a plan, I need to remember that it may not necessarily reflect reality. It took me until the morning of the second day to remember that my plan was a starting point, from which changes can be made.
In spite of how tired I feel, everything is going well so far. Samuel seems to like the books I got for him. He is using a reader that is styled like a Dick and Jane book. He has never really cared for them, but he seems interested in this book. He looks very carefully at the illustrations and I make sure to refer to them as we read the story. I am re-typing one of his religion books on "Writing With Symbols". So far what we are reading is a review, but he is very interested in it. I'll elaborate more on other subjects later.
My kindergartner is my most challenging student! Every time I call him for a lesson he protests! This lasts for a minute or so and then I somehow convince him to cooperate and then he's fine after that.
I have been sticking to my plan of approximately 15 minute lessons for each child at a time. The last two days I have been able to do 4 sessions of work with Samuel. In addition to that he is being read to several times per day, both by me and by our in-home helper. While this might not sound like much time, this is a big increase from the amount of time we spent on work over the summer each day, AND HE IS ACCEPTING THE INCREASE AND IS COOPERATING! During each work session we cover two or three subjects. One thing I can do immediately to improve is to be better prepared early in the morning so that I'm not spending my day planning the next session of work. As time goes on I will either increase the number of work sessions we do or will make each session longer. Perhaps I'll do a combination of these two things.
My kindergartner started soccer today. He was not very eager to participate but hopefully his attitude will improve by next week. His oldest brother will play starting next week.
9 comments:
You could always strip off the times and call it a checklist . . .
My son was like that when he was five . . . I eventually learned my lesson, put the books away, and brought them back when he turned six. He just wasn't ready for schooltime.
However, it was easy to justify it in my mind because he had taught himself to read a year prior by typing Dr. Seuss books into computer software that could read aloud. With that milestone behind us, I could talk myself into "slacking" for another year. On the other hand, Charlotte Mason (my favorite educator) did not accept children under the age of six, no matter how precocious. Head start or late is better? One could debate back and forth for eons on that issue!
My daily plan is more like a checklist now, and that is working out much better for my peace of mind.
My five year old just isn't used to having expectations of work. We really didn't do much work together this past year, other than some ABC coloring pages. I'm trying to focus on reading stories to him (alone, so I can give him more attention). My oldest was so different at age 5: eager to please others and he was practically reading on his own.
I enjoy the challenge of becoming familiar with the different learning styles and abilities that each of my children has!
Thanks for visiting homeschool daze! I am looking forward to reading your blog. My child with autism is only 2, so I am interested to see how your schooling goes, I think it'll be great!
You are so brave. I do not know if I could set myself to do the task you have undertaken. I really do not. All home schoolers are brave. It would be nice to be able to home school.
I agree with the others...take away the time and call it a check list. That is what mine had to morph into. I can not face the day without a list.
I feel like I have charts and lists every where for every thing.
I just finished my first week of homeschool and I am so fried. I like your idea of setting some time aside for each child and breaking it up. This week I had them both at the table and was walking back and forth trying to teach them... I've really been enjoying the weekend...
So how is it going???
We started with 5 minute session [with all the protests.....] so you're doing great to start at 15!
Best wishes
HI!
How are things going?
Keep us posted. What a task and adventure you have taken on.
You sound like you are doing really well.Getting Beauty to sit still and concentrate on something other than a computer is a really difficult job.
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